Can I Get Rid of Child Support and Alimony If I File Bankruptcy?

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You can’t use bankruptcy to eliminate past due child support or alimony. You might be able to use bankruptcy to eliminate certain obligations under a property settlement. But bankruptcy can still help you because you can use it to manage your past due domestic support obligations and keep you out of family court and maybe even out of jail.

Types of Domestic Support Obligations in a Bankruptcy Case

The bankruptcy code defines a “domestic support obligation” as a debt “in the nature of alimony, maintenance, or support” owed pursuant to a separation agreement, divorce decree, or property settlement agreement; a court order, or other determination made under nonbankruptcy (usually state) law.

Note the hedging language, “in the nature of.” The bankruptcy code recognizes that the debt may be called one thing, but actually serve another purpose altogether. We see this often in property settlements that are intended to serve as a stand-in for alimony or spousal maintenance. Just because it’s called a thing, doesn’t make it a thing. Therefore, judgments and decrees from family court judges have to be scrutinized by the bankruptcy court to determine whether the whether their provisions are awarding a DSO, which cannot be discharged, or another type of marital property division that might be discharged.

Child support is big business in the United States, but receive all the child support they’re supposed to receive under either a court order or an informal agreement. Of custodial parents awarded child support, on average they receive less than 70 percent of the amount they’re due.

What happens to child support that doesn’t get paid? The debt grows just like any other unpaid debt. Those arrearages will add up fast, and the consequences are serious. Depending on where you live, the authorities can:

  • charge interest on the past due amounts
  • publish your name and picture on a list of “deadbeat” parents in the newspaper
  • deny your passport application
  • seize your wages, your bank account, and your tax refunds seized
  • place a lien against your house and other real estate
  • report you to the credit bureaus
  • suspend your driver’s license
  • suspend your professional license
  • charge you with contempt
  • fine you
  • put you in jail

In Chapter 7 straight bankruptcy cases, many debts can be forgiven, or discharged. Most credit card debt, personal loans, and medical bills will be eliminated to allow the debtor (the person who files the bankruptcy case) to get a fresh start.

While banks and other businesses may be able to absorb the losses from these discharged debts, single parents are not usually so flexible and are in fact greatly burdened when the child support check is late, or comes up short. Many of those families end up on public assistance. Society has a high interest, both moral and practical, in ensuring that noncustodial parents make their child support payments as ordered. Therefore, delinquent parents can’t just eliminate that obligation by filing a bankruptcy case.

But, the parent who owes the child support can use bankruptcy to manage those past due child support payments. See below.

Alimony and Spousal Maintenance: To be excepted from discharge, money owed to a spouse has to meet three requirements:

  • the debt must be in the nature of alimony, maintenance, or support,
  • the debt must be owed to a former spouse, and
  • the debt must be incurred in connection with a separation agreement, divorce, or property settlement agreement or other order of a court of record.

In determining the issue of discharge, most litigation concerns the first requirement. If the divorce court and the parties intended the award to serve as maintenance, it will not be discharged. But, if the award is actually a division of property, it may be treated differently even if it is labeled “alimony” or “support”.

In determining whether the obligation is support, a rule of thumb states that money necessary to help the receiving spouse maintain the basic necessities is support. Beyond that rule of thumb, courts look at a number of factors to determine if the debt is “in the nature” of support or maintenance. Here is a short list:

  • Is the obligation characterized as support in the divorce decree?
  • Was the obligation placed in a section labeled “support”?
  • Does the obligation terminate when either spouse dies or remarries?
  • Is the obligation payable in installments over time rather than a lump sum?
  • Is there a large difference between the parties’ incomes?
  • Are the payments designed to balance income?
  • Is there no other mention of support payments in the decree?
  • Are there children who need support?
  • Are the payment taxable to spouse who receives them?

    Answering “yes” to these questions indicates the award is for support. Support is not dischargeable in a Chapter 7 case or a Chapter 13 case, but as we will see, you can use Chapter 13 to manage the debt and pay it off.

    Property Settlement agreements are most often used in a divorce case to divide the assets that the couple owned during the marriage. They can and are often still used to set forth the parties’ agreement with respect to who will pay which debts.

    Most property settlements are not dischargeable in a Chapter 7 case. There are at least two types of property or debt division that can be discharged in a Chapter 13 case: hold harmless agreements and cash in lieu of other assets.

    Hold Harmless: Some of those debts may have been taken out by one or both spouse for the benefit of the family. Either spouse can take on the responsibility for paying any of the debts. The property settlement agreement is an enforceable contract between the parties. But it is not enforceable against the credit card company. Therefore, as to the credit card company, the person who opened the account is still liable and has the responsibility to see that it’s paid. This is where the “hold harmless” provision comes in.

    Example: Let’s say Roger opened up a credit card account with First National Bank in his own name, but he used the card to pay for expenses incurred by the family or for the benefit of the family, Mila, his spouse, agrees to take on that debt as a part of their property settlement. If Mila stops making payments, First National will look to Roger to make the payments because the account is in his name. But, Mila’s attorney insisted that the property settlement agreement include a “hold harmless” requirement.

    This hold harmless provision makes Mila responsible for reimbursing Roger if he has to make payments on the account.

    In our example, because of the hold harmless provision, Mila owes a debt to Roger. That debt is not dischargeable in a Chapter 7 case, but it can be discharged in a Chapter 13 case.

    Cash Payments: Sometimes, it may not be practical to split assets 50/50. Let’s say that Roger and Mila have a house, but not much in the way of other assets. The couple has three kids, and Mila will have primary custody. She wants to keep the house for the family. The house has equity of $100,000. Under other circumstances, the parties might sell the house and split the equity. But, because Mila wants to keep the house, she agrees to pay Roger $500 per month until she’s paid $50,000 or until the house is sold and she’s able to pay off that obligation.

    Mila’s obligation to Roger is not dischargeable in a Chapter 7 case. But, if Mila files a Chapter 13 case, that debt can be discharged.

    Using Bankruptcy to Manage DSOs and Other Divorce-Related Obligations

    Even though support and some other divorce-related debts cannot be discharged in a Chapter 7 case, they can often be managed in a Chapter 13 case. Chapter 13 is a repayment plan under the protection of the bankruptcy court. It is a global management plan in that all of the debtor’s debts are treated in the plan in some way.

    What Are​ Priority Debts? The bankruptcy code prioritizes debts to ensure that some debts are paid before others when there aren’t enough resources to pay 100 percent of creditors’ claims. For instance, domestic support obligations have a high priority but most other unsecured debts, like credit cards and medical bills, are assigned a lower priority. This becomes important in a Chapter 13 case when the debtor doesn’t make enough money and cannot make a high enough payment over the course of the plan to pay all her obligations.

    For a Chapter 13 plan to be approved by the court, it has to pay off certain high priority debts over a three to five year period. (The length of the plan depends on the income of the debtor’s family.) Those priority debts include non-dischargeable support and property division obligations. Priority debts do not include obligations that arise out of hold harmless agreements or the provisions we described as cash in lieu of assets. Those two are treated like credit cards and medical bills.

    Unpaid Non-Priority Debts Will Be Discharged in Chapter 13: When the debtors doesn’t have enough disposable income to pay all her obligations, she can still propose a repayment plan that pays at least those priority debts. To the extent she has anything left over, the low priority creditors will share that pro rata.

    Example: Mila pays child support to Roger, but when she lost her job, she couldn’t pay and the child support arrearages are now $15,000. When she gets a new job, she decides to file a Chapter 13 case. She will pay off that $15,000 over a five-year plan. She also has $20,000 in credit card debt and the $50,000 she owes Roger for his portion of the home equity. After paying all her reasonable and necessary expenses each month, she only has $400 left over to devote to her Chapter 13 plan. Approximately $250 of the $400 payment will have to go to Roger to pay off the $15,000 by the end of the five-year plan.

    The Chapter 13 trustee will keep $15 as his fee for administering the case. That leaves $135 a month, or $8,100 total over 60 months for all the other creditors.

    At the end of Mila’s 60-month Chapter 13 plan, Roger will be paid in full on his support claim, but the other creditors will have received less than 12 percent of their claims. It makes no difference because under the bankruptcy code, Mila has put forth her best effort and she has paid Roger’s priority claim. The rest of her debt will be discharged. The other creditors have to be satisfied with what they’ve gotten.

    And that includes Roger’s property settlement. As a non-priority dischargeable debt, Roger will only get what the other unsecured creditors receive, 12 percent of the $50,000 he was owed.

    Paying DSOs Over a 60-Month Chapter 13 Plan

    Even though a child support claim is not dischargeable, you can take up to five years to pay it off in a Chapter 13 while under the protection of the bankruptcy court. The child support creditor can take no action on that debt as long as you make your payments according to your plan and you keep up your current domestic support obligations.